Interpreting Baby Sounds

Can’t hear what baby is saying?
Babies talk to us  .. .
Shall we listen?

We all need to sleep . .


 

5 everyday needs .  .
NEH – hungry
OWH – sleepy (from yawn reflex)
HEH – discomfort
EAIR – lower belly groany
EH – burp needed

Wish I had known . .

I suspect we all get the sub plot

I just found this .
A short cut . .
Listening to newborn babies.
They talk from the day that they are born .
We are just not listening

Jing Markers – him

There is apparently an infertility ‘epidemic’
But perhaps you could stop and ask yourself – am I well?

How many of these infertility markers apply to you?

Is he – prospective dad (or she – prospective mum) – well?
Are we well placed to go through the rigors of being a parent?

If not – possibly get well first?

Especially if you have been channeled into spending lots of money at assisted reproduction – of all persuasions. Perhaps take a step back and get your periods functioning properly (in her case) and great gut health and then the sperm up to optimal (not just scraping the least-fertile markers) – as miscarriages are not really where you want to start your parenting journey. See more here – and download your insurance package –  Avoiding Early Pregnancy Loss (also available as part of the Easy Fertility package)

It is really a state of toxins in your body – stopping normal from happening.

All the substances and modern living and less sleep and less nourishing foods that your great grand parents had – means you do not have the ongoing tribe of pregnancies that they had to endure. What is different in the past 30 years?

Only that long ago people were desperately trying to STOP the baby flood.

  • Could it be in the water? (Probably)
  • Could it be in the use of chemicals that hormonally disrupt all beings (definitely)
  • Can you reverse this? (Yes). (click the link)

What to do? Simplify your life

Start taking all the micronutrients that are missing from the food chain – either through not being in the soil to start with – or being bypassed due to modern farming techniques.

Males losing their manhood

Hormonal disruption due to the 21st Century ways and habits and toxins.
Definitely a lower than fertile sperm test.
(or sperm that are sluggish/can’t sperm/wonky heads/deviant/not enough).

Listen to Dr Chris Smith on ABC radio

look to all written in my eBooks – as this is nyour invetsment in nNOT speding up big and with no reward. I am now seeing NO that is NONE – fertile men in to make babies. They would be dads if they were. The low AMH (totally fixable with life changes and personal effort), endometriosis and all other excuses given can not get past the fact that HE has not the sperm qualty his own dad had.  It is all about wellness .  . . and a great digestive system and putting good quality foods that build great babies into it.

Better baby insurance – His

Men who are fertile have babies, and don’t need sperm tests – they get a vasectomy. In your parents’ day (ask them) babies were conceived at any time of the month. . . any age ..
sex is to make babies. If it doesn’t – find out why not and fix it. Don’t seek someone to play with your bank account.

It takes two to make a baby – if he is fertile (over 80% looking normal – over 100 million at least as the minimum fertile marker 30+ years ago) babies will happen regardless of how ‘old’, how ‘fat’, how few eggs she supposedly has.

Don’t throw your money away on unnecessary fertility treatments – fertility is all about health and happiness. Think about it – if she has been on the pill for ages – she has not even been USING her eggs – they are still in suspended hibernation – she just needs to get healthy herself And lose weight … and her middle fat.

These are great ‘ways out’ for hopeless sperm. FIX IT MEN.

How? Start by taking it what should never have been part of your body – not just what is being eaten/drunk but why your body is not in perfect mint condition. Poisons and toxins that are within us  . .

Why do you not have 350 million, 95% normal – all rapid swimmers?

As your great grandparents did?

You can do it – get healthy. Exercise daily. Lose the beer gut. Go to bed before 10 pm. Start eating proper food. Vegetables – lots of them. Not a drug company’s apparent male fertility product at great cost from the chemist. Do it yourself through changing your eating choices.

Stop making excuses for your own poor performance in the bedroom. Reliable hard and hot apparatus means more likely, abundant great swimmers – who knew? Any Chinese medical practitioner – not the medicos – do they mention sex? No – yet this is how babies are made

More of it – hot and steamy (ban the bed as a venue) and in all positions – often. She doesn’t feel like it – well – that is half the problem – get her more juiced up – be more attentive – turn off the electronic gadgets. Spend time being with each other. Walking after tea. Relate. Sharing of yourself – your hopes and dreams. Start wooing her again. Time to be a couple. Start touching for wellness, not making babies. Heart singing living. These are all good for gluing a family together.

Have women all of a sudden gotten more fertile to cope with the complete collapse of their men’s fertility? No.

I have the women who would be pregnant if HE had the semen quality of his father’s generation. Why is no one seeing that 4 % LOOKING normal sperm is rubbish? It is not good enough for a man with 6% normal sperm to think I am ‘picking on him’ and not return to make his health better so his wife can make babies of COURSE the IVF team will play with the hopeless sperm samples – that is what they do – they don’t send you away to get in baby shape first. . . this is how money, not babies is made. Perhaps backing up and treating your body as though it were a temple may help?

Clean food, early to bed, no chemicals and plenty of water, not substances full of reproductive toxins – caffeine, alcohol, sugar – may help? Can’t hurt – and you would at least feel healthier for your efforts also.
Baby made from better sperm can only be a healthier baby – the quality is up to the parents BEFORE they conceive. . and Nature is stopping you for a very good reason – not likely to make a great baby so don’t even think about starting it – not even a miscarriage? This is reproductive failure  so find out why and FIX IT – don’t pay others to try to dupe nature – she expects survival of the fittest . . and you don’t want a stillbirth – they happen to others – why not you – without proper planning?

Insurance – get well yourself and see that she has easy periods, easy sexuality, easy fertility and easy pregnancies making easy babies.

See Avoiding Early Pregnancy Loss (also available as part of the Easy Fertility package)

This Is why 20 years ago my patients attending IVF clinics had a big problem – what to do with the perfect 15 embryos left in the freezer after they have had all the children they want? Do not see even one great one made out cycles these days to put back in to become a child. So why is it that fertility and health are not seen as being hand in hand?
The specialists of ARTIFICIAL reproduction TECHNOLOGY are not weeding out the unhealthy ones as farmers would – as where would the money be then? It is a business model, not an altruistic – best baby possible is surely what you think you are buying?

But your life will never be the same again if you mess up. I know – My story, I myself have a massively brain injured adult child, who was so separately to this, massively vaccine damaged (I chose to give her the MMR after she was nearly out of the autism she had in addition (mercury in my mouth legacy from a tooth capped in 5 months pregnant – bad move!! – heavy metal toxicity went straight to her and where are the warnings in the dental chair for this?) with it when very to the profound brain injury from getting a disease from my body in utero that I did not know I had – so health and well being BEFORE pregnancy is invaluable. See also the role of nutrients and autism.

I, as a therapist then, did not know of the role of Iodine and Zinc and Magnesium in pregnancy – and hence I more than anyone else have the knowledge that will help you NOT go down and similar path to me. Some do. The dud sperm you start with – making babies with IVF that Nature did not want is part of your journey – is a very bad start.

Think – is this the best you want for your children – so desperate to get pregnant – any pregnancy will do? You could change this and go with perfect – and this is where thinking and planning – much like choosing a house site and getting the best architects and workers in – to make your new house – surely the babies you make deserve some of this foresight also?
Why not start as nature intended – be well and have perfect periods, and be the best parents to be BEFORE you try for a baby? After all, in generations past the efforts were try to NOT have them . . and they still appeared – why is this? We now have new distractions. Chemicals. Toxins. Caffeine. Alcohol. Electromagnetic radiation. Modern life. Not enough respect for a body and a soul – you can change this – it is not a fast process sometimes, but it gives far better results. Not miscarriages – not failed chemical pregnancies – but real babies in arms to love.  ..

Look after your babies before you make them – treat yourself to health first.

Fertility is a measure of health (wellness), also known as ‘Jing’ – what is it?

If not yet pregnant – look to the fertility app – especially for the crucial sperm contribution – and for women – the Period App to normalise life thus the cycles – get in baby making shape, sort out your life, your emotions and your body and your life prior to using your ‘baby factory’. Sound hard ? So is NOT making babies throwing your money, your relationship and your health ways all because no one spelt out the obvious – if you are not making babies naturally easily – there is a reason and nature is saying NO – find out why so your children’s future is a well and happy  one.

Contact me or email on heather@heatherbruce.com.au 

or ring (07) 3899 2274 for an appointment.
Join the Natural Fertility Coach to help yourself to better health thus better babies – wherever you are in the world. Help is at hand.

Making Better Babies

Get in baby making shape first

You can change your baby’s future health and existence – simply . .
Learn how here.

Great eggs and plentiful useful sperm make great babies.

Epigenetics are what allows who you could be to be expressed.

And all those coming after you.
Healthier, more robust grand children and their easy lives/fertility  also . .

Perhaps start here – decluttering yourself – on all levels

Are you sure you want to make a baby the new or the old way (sex with two healthy parents to be – as has worked till recently? Want to make sure your offspring are as perfect as possible? There is a problem with IVF/ART – not as good babies may result. Maybe back up – don’t go there first – start with nature and see how much better life forever after could be. Start with the right raw ingredients – one healthy mum and one healthy dad – as the levels of plummetting fertility are showing this step is missing . .

‘Like’ Natural Fertility Coach as soon I will be offering a way to help yourself at home with my help – having been working in all aspects of maternity since before IVF happened – I do know a lot that is missing – common sense, truth in all ways to allow well babies, great pregnancies to easily visit you and cheaply – follow Nature . . .

Hence what health decisions you are now making are generational in their effect. Entertaining info here.

Perhaps it is time to look at WHY the babies are not happening without work on your part – and attend to this, rather than pretending any old baby made at great financial expense is worth it? Ring me or make a Skype appointment as I can help you help yourself

Start here with a simple, practical and natural approach – rehydrate and then cleanse .  . .

Breathing? Yes – the beginning of life – fresh air . . .

Food – fueling who you are to make and presently how you get to this  .

Sperm that is inadequate, not moving, hardly there, decrepit, strange looking that are now so ‘normal’ in men’s samples don’t make good babies. Hence the epidemic of ‘infertile’ women.

For far too long the King Henry the VIIIth problem (it is all HER fault) has been prevalent – is NOT about her fertility – but his. I do not see any great sperm tests these days. Even ones that would have made the grade 10 years ago.

What is accepted as “normal” now was completely unacceptable only a few years ago. Why?

Reading this is well worth the effort – as you can see that all around we have why we are not trying to STOP babies happening. As all our forebears did.

Fertility specialists often blame the female partner  – she is apparently causing the baby blockage problem by being too fat, too old, too endometrially challenged. If this were true, I would have a heap of great semen results for the men who are NOT DADS whilst their women were this reproductively hopeless – and they don’t exist.

Men who are fertile have babies, and don’t need sperm tests – they get a vasectomy.

In your parents’ day (ask them) babies were conceived at any time of the month. . . any age ..
sex is to make babies.
If it doesn’t – find out why not and fix it. Don’t seek someone to play with your bank account.

It takes two to make a baby – if he is fertile (over 80% looking normal – over 100 million at least as the minimum fertile marker 30+ years ago) babies will happen regardless of how ‘old’, how ‘fat’, how few eggs she supposedly has.

Don’t throw your money away on unnecessary fertility treatments – fertility is all about health and happiness.

Think about it – if she has been on the pill for ages – she has not even been USING her eggs – they are still in suspended hibernation – she just needs to get healthy herself And lose weight … and her middle fat.

These are great ‘ways out’ for hopeless sperm. FIX IT MEN.

How? Start by taking it what should never have been part of your body – not just what is being eaten/drunk but why your body is not in perfect mint condition. Poisons and toxins that are within us  . .

 

 

Why do you not have 350 million, 95% normal – all rapid swimmers?

As your great grandparents did?

You can do it – get healthy. Exercise daily. Lose the beer gut. Go to bed before 10 pm. Start eating proper food. Vegetables – lots of them. Not a drug company’s apparent male fertility product at great cost from the chemist. Do it yourself through changing your eating choices.

Stop making excuses for your own poor performance in the bedroom. Reliable hard and hot apparatus means more likely, abundant great swimmers – who knew? Any Chinese medical practitioner – not the medicos – do they mention sex? No – yet this is how babies are made . . .

More of it – hot and steamy (ban the bed as a venue) and in all positions – often. She doesn’t feel like it – well – that is half the problem – get her more juiced up – be more attentive – turn off the electronic gadgets. Spend time being with each other. Walking after tea. Relate. Sharing of yourself – your hopes and dreams. Start wooing her again. Time to be a couple. Start touching for wellness, not making babies. Heart singing living. These are all good for gluing a family together.

Have women all of a sudden gotten more fertile to cope with the complete collapse of their men’s fertility?

No.

I have the women who would be pregnant if HE had the semen quality of his father’s generation. Why is no one seeing that 4 % LOOKING normal sperm is rubbish? It is not good enough for a man with 6% normal sperm to think I am ‘picking on him’ and not return to make his health better so his wife can make babies of COURSE the IVF team will play with the hopeless sperm samples – that is what they do – they don’t send you away to get in baby shape first. . . this is how money, not babies is made. Perhaps backing up and treating your body as though it were a temple may help?

Clean food, early to bed, no chemicals and plenty of water, not substances full of reproductive toxins – caffeine, alcohol, sugar – may help? Can’t hurt – and you would at least feel healthier for your efforts also.
Baby made from better sperm can only be a healthier baby – the quality is up to the parents BEFORE they conceive. . and Nature is stopping you for a very good reason – not likely to make a great baby so don’t even think about starting it – not even a miscarriage? This is reproductive failure  so find out why and FIX IT – don’t pay others to try to dupe nature – she expects survival of the fittest . . and you don’t want a stillbirth – they happen to others – why not you – without proper planning?

Insurance – get well yourself and see that she has easy periods, easy sexuality, easy fertility and easy pregnancies making easy babies.

See Avoiding Early Pregnancy Loss (also available as part of the Easy Fertility package)

This Is why 20 years ago my patients attending IVF clinics had a big problem – what to do with the perfect 15 embryos left in the freezer after they have had all the children they want? Do not see even one great one made out cycles these days to put back in to become a child. So why is it that fertility and health are not seen as being hand in hand?
The specialists of ARTIFICIAL reproduction TECHNOLOGY are not weeding out the unhealthy ones as farmers would – as where would the money be then? It is a business model, not an altruistic – best baby possible is surely what you think you are buying?

But your life will never be the same again if you mess up. I know – My story, I myself have a massively brain injured adult child, who was so separately to this, massively vaccine damaged (I chose to give her the MMR after she was nearly out of the autism she had in addition (mercury in my mouth legacy from a tooth capped in 5 months pregnant – bad move!! – heavy metal toxicity went straight to her and where are the warnings in the dental chair for this?) with it when very to the profound brain injury from getting a disease from my body in utero that I did not know I had – so health and well being BEFORE pregnancy is invaluable. See also the role of nutrients and autism.

I, as a therapist then, did not know of the role of Iodine and Zinc and Magnesium in pregnancy – and hence I more than anyone else have the knowledge that will help you NOT go down and similar path to me. Some do. The dud sperm you start with – making babies with IVF that Nature did not want is part of your journey – is a very bad start.

Think – is this the best you want for your children – so desperate to get pregnant – any pregnancy will do? You could change this and go with perfect – and this is where thinking and planning – much like choosing a house site and getting the best architects and workers in – to make your new house – surely the babies you make deserve some of this foresight also?
Why not start as nature intended – be well and have perfect periods, and be the best parents to be BEFORE you try for a baby? After all, in generations past the efforts were try to NOT have them . . and they still appeared – why is this? We now have new distractions. Chemicals. Toxins. Caffeine. Alcohol. Electromagnetic radiation. Modern life. Not enough respect for a body and a soul – you can change this – it is not a fast process sometimes, but it gives far better results. Not miscarriages – not failed chemical pregnancies – but real babies in arms to love.  ..

Look after your babies before you make them – treat yourself to health first.

Fertility is a measure of health (wellness), also known as ‘Jing’ – what is it?

Relieving Engorgement

Strategies For Relieving Engorgement

From Maya Bolman, a well-respected clinical lactation care provider in the U.S. who uses her hands to help nursing mothers relieve the breast fullness that can interfere with their breastfeeding.

Bolman observes that, since the breast has no fascia or muscle to aid in movement of fluids other than breast milk, congestion of the breasts is common during early lactation. As a new mother’s body sheds fluids from pregnancy and those given intravenously during hospital labor and childbirth, milk production begins in earnest. The breasts can become uncomfortably full or even swell to the point that milk ceases to flow.

Read the full article

Induction (2)

Induction (part 2)

This is my position statement, as so many people do not think through what is being asked of them by their medical directors. . Intervention into the interface mum/baby inherently alters the dance of hormonal bliss that awaits all who birth undisturbed – naturally as a mammal.

Often people think I will interfere at the apparent end of their end of pregnancy . . .
Here is what I have seen after 35+ years assisting women in their maternal journey.

Generally baby is not ready, not due actually, or mum is not ready – or baby is in the (non optimal) actually wrong position, or something is not safe for baby to descend or be birthed.
Are any of these taken into account in making a very broad connection between apparent ‘dueness’, (no ‘use by fate’ – depends totally on mum’s state of health and the placental blood flow – which can be improved through the sacral moxa fan and the massage all on this page) – maternal impatience and all the other factors that may seem completely ridiculous even a month from now ..

Perhaps it is time to ponder ..

What is the rush? What will happen if you don’t?
Where is the evidence to support that this is to happen to YOUR baby?
How ‘right’ are the scans?
Is there some way to improve placental flow if this is the major concern – especially if baby is not ‘due’ yet?
Is baby unsafe being incubated where s/he has been so safely growing all this while? Is there a ‘use by date’ on the placenta? How is it to be measured, seeing we are all different, and all have different rates of metabolism and health?

Is your body’s wisdom to be ignored?

Are you inadvertently setting the scene for your future parenting style?
Why listen to medical fears and to your own impatience – what if baby is not ready to breathe? In six month’s time – will it be seen as the best care for your baby?

Or yourself?
You may think that you are listening to ‘safety’ concerns – without realizing it is usually not safe to induce. I spend a lot of clinic time undoing all the birthing horror stories that just would not have happened had mum had a homebirth in a safe supportive birthing culture. Please research yourself – is hospital birthing safe?

What is your definition of ‘safe’ – as the rates of postnatal maternal distress/trauma are new, and rising, and you do not surely need to be one of these women. Has anyone walked you through the likely reasons for your not having your babe in arms yet?

  1. Baby not ready

(‘Dueness’ is a very relative term and is dependent on your state of health and the ‘cooking speed’ of your own oven THIS TIME – meaning all sorts of things throughout the pregnancy may have slowed down the effectiveness of your body’s ability to make baby and it is catching up now.

  1. You are not ready

Investigating what birthing and being a mum mean to you nay have been not on your radar as work has been keeping you busy – and talking you with all and the work to get a nursery etc ready – what about the inner ‘homework’ around losing your independence on most levels – and being an anonymous mum like all the others – has this been worked through?

  1. Baby is not in the right position

Head down is the beginning – then comes lying in the side that your pelvis can easily birth from? Usually the baby’s back on your left facing your right – (called OA – not OP)

  1. Your pelvis is still too tight

Also happens – especially when you are very ‘fit’ – and often gets in the way of easy birthing – especially if there are old falls/damage that have never been totally healed – this is where the Mayan /Arvigo work is brilliant and if this is not possible – at least work through the Easy Birthing DVD and eBooks found here.

  1. You need to get yourself and your ‘stuff’ out of the way

Becoming a mum means losing yourself. Finding a new person within. This could be what is now holding you back – and this inner work (see point 2 above) is almost never acknowledged. Please talk with older women – and see if they have tips for you. Your peers will be still too raw/new. Elders do try to assist as they know what will likely happen when .  . as it did to them when they also thought that they knew it all.

Nature will let you know when it is time to move to induction – and being bored/fed up with being so pregnant is not one of these. If you have sore muscles/can’t sleep etc – go to the pregnancy app – a health solutions focused ‘do it yourself now’ help at your fingertips from a senior natural health problem solving maternal specialist’s decades of helping other just like you.

Do you know about ‘failed inductions?

Have you asked ‘What if it doesn’t work?’
Is baby in danger? (Balancing the risks)
If it is baby number one to be vaginally birthed – there is a process – and you are starting it – by being impatient – were you baby – how would you feel about being evacuated before time as you felt it?

Have you even pondered 

Is baby really ready to breathe? Who is running this – as it is the most momentous event baby will ever experience physiologically – and if not ready how are you damaging baby for life? No one walked you through this?  Think that it must be ‘OK’ otherwise it would not be offered in hospital?

What is induction?

Why is baby, and your body happy to stay growing as is? Due date – a lot written – what if we just left well alone? It is seen as 41 weeks all through France?

All have always known that the first baby comes later.

Naegele was in Germany in the 19th century – and no one seems to have updated the 40 week term. (Used to be 37 – 43 weeks, with 2 weeks extra added in if it were your first one)
What if your period and the scan dating are wrong – why are you forcing baby to come when you want? When the doctor wants? What happen next?

Ask your friends who have not had an orgasmic birth – who are not bonded and happily breastfeeding with a calm peaceful baby . . (Who takes baby home to deal with forever after). Maternal distress is not where you wish to start your new life long love relationship from.

If you are scared of birthing – perhaps step back and get yourself birthing-ready.

It is transformative, it is powerful – it is life changing – and deciding to miss the natural way and go with medicine may cause you more drama than you may anticipate.

Please rethink this . .

Is it safe to ever interfere?
(Usually never) Who is benefiting ?

Is it baby? Really? Perhaps look to evidence based birth. Especially around the likelihood of much more dramatic eventualities. Perhaps check the rates of ‘emergency’ C sections after a failed induction. Research online . . . start here maybe. . .

Ask yourself – why not just get yourself birth ready – as this is a pelvic/heart relationship/connection – not a mental mind one. Being controlled by fear and what might be is not the best place to start a loving mothering bond.
Mothering is about nothing being in your control – so why try to make baby happen according to your will – this is a great place to start – let go and stop listening to anything other than baby . .

Why not just wait – as more interference is not what mammals do best with ..

Ask instead . .
1) – Is baby in the right spot?

(OP/back to back is usually the reason women see me to get baby started

2) – Calm down – stop listening to the people who are not giving you the full story, but their current ‘best practice’. Best for you? Your body? Your baby?

3) – Can you change baby position. Why baby is lying there?

Wait – as baby and body will work it out get info on how you can assist –

A whole look at matters important and what you can do to help yourself – especially around late pregnancy. Baby changing position and what to do about this at home safely – really works and allows pelvis to open and relax to birth easily.

Spinning babies may also help you – the eBooks from Heather above (also see the app) are the key as these are time honored easy do it yourself for all gains on late pregnancy techniques to assist the spinning babies one – and also find a Mayan pregnancy massage therapist. Why?

Optimal uterine positioning wins as does realigning the sacrum – as this work (and the sacral moxa fan and message) will do for you.
4) – Is your cervix even ready?

(Meaning is it going to happen anyway, left alone – soon?)
5) – Are you as a person ready?
What will happen if we just get you in the space to be ready to let go?
Not control – but release your will into the baby space of let it be?

Is this to set the tone for your child rearing – pretending that you can control another?
If you have doubts – see a trusted natural health specialist.

Is there enough maternal magnesium set aside for easy birthing? Do you have sufficient Vit D stored away to allow the minerals so needed for an easy birth to be ready?

A Mayan massage and Arvigo practitioner (as I am ) who is skilled at not only ‘ready, set, go’ at the need, but ensuring that your ligaments and structure are birth ready .

This is your precious baby’s birth – not your both – you had yours decades ago.

Think – what is nature saying to me – perhaps – learn that I am not in control?

Is there really an emergency – is it really dangerous to be within my safe space (uterus) for another few days or weeks? Is there something I (mum) need to work through before I (mum) see /feel my baby?

Is it all a matter of release, let go, and accept – as the beginning of my maternal journey are not to be shaped by medical version of panic/through fear – but live and acceptance – that my beloved will come – and will be here when s/he is ready – and on the meantime what can I do to prepare the nest?
And my body for the transition for both of us??

Whose baby and life is it?

Responsible parenting surely starts by not taking the first loud voice as being in your baby’s favour? Hard decisions? Have to be responsible? Welcome to being a parent. .
Perhaps start here, Or here, Or here

Do you really understand birth – or do you expect those you are paying/trusting do?
Whose birth is it anyway? (Baby’s). You want it ‘safe’ – leave Nature to do it her way . .

Thinking perhaps –‘oh well there is always an epidural?’
Think it through – do you want your baby as a drug exposed being in the first time it is to change circulation and life to being independent? What was the point of ‘doing everything right’ to protect baby – why are you giving it all over to big guns now?
What does nature set you up for?
Blissful bonding?? Loving baby ? Easy lactation?

Third stage – however baby was birthed – the most important one for mum forever after . . Have you thought of .. Leaving well alone.  All this information has been put together by women who have done this before you – and fervently wish someone had enlightened them.

EBook package to instantly allay any fears as you do the work needed for an easy birth (And a pain free back and structure at any stage of the pregnancy ) and all the tips for post natal care of mum’s body. Instantly downloadable ‘What Dads Can Do’ manual and 2x MP4’s . .

WDCD pack use this one

Why IVF/ART/IUI/ICSI is not where to start

Baby making . . . 

When I first started assisting couples to become families in the late ‘70’s, there was no other way of helping than by doing what farmers and householders had always done – improve what you were making the babies/ farm produce with . .

1) – This meant overhauling health. ??

(Not a medical issue/interest/focus)

2) – Ensuring there was sufficient raw ingredients. (Micro nutrients – such as ZInc, and sacred foods for super babies/parents and what we make hormones with)

(Still now medicine says ‘there is no evidence’ to show that changing diet affects inflammation/pain/ cancer/diabetes or in fact any health problem at all – as their focus is on drugs and life management of illness, not the return of vibrant health and happiness.

3) – Clearing out any toxic influences (zeolites) that were negatively impacting upon the process at all levels.

Why?

There has been a massive swing away from common sense over the past several decades as people no longer grow their own food and are thus totally divorced from natural life. What used to be laws that all knew about are now often seen as ‘old wive’s tales’ and ‘old fashioned’.
Especially when there is now such big money to be made by all selling dreams on hopes and now through fear (getting too old/time running out/’AMH too low’ etc).

What is missed in this is the engagement in health and vitality.
Who cares – when a lot of money can change hands and bypass nature?

You may.

I do.
Why?

I have been in this business for too long and have a sense of history . .

I see you all through your life. (Continuity of care).

This means that regardless of whether the baby is conceived, I still see you for all the health and life issues that pop up – often for decades.

There is more joy in doing a job well than in supporting you as you learn that there is an order in the world, and that you have violated it – through winning a lottery of chance – what do I mean .. .?

(Yes this (As life is) is confronting .. .

1 – you maybe have a molar pregnancy or a

2 – pregnancy that will not ‘stick’ – or

3 – you are the one that gets the experience of having to terminate your baby as s/he is not formed properly,

4 or you get the dead twins in utero as they compete against each other and both die,

5 – or you get the premmie baby who can’t make it,

6 – or a baby who failed to thrive, and died or who struggled and still now does

or/and and whose placenta shut down/off enough to cause lifelong issues

7 – or you get the baby who never breathed for whatever reason,

8 – or you get the compromised baby – all different scenarios, that you may feel happen to ‘someone else’ –

BUT I see those someone else’s are in my clinic . . . often decades later . . .

or a few weeks/months/years later as they can’t move through their lives to the next stage.

All of this is happening as we are not listening to nature.

Medicos may dissect the bodies of the babies, and look at ‘chromosomes’ – as though you are somehow doomed by birth accidents – yet you were perfectly well till this happened – so what about epigenetics?
That is what you have done /fed yourself – and also what has happened to your family line – all eating and living in the same toxic habits and experiences – not just physical – there are nasty memories. Patterns of abuse and distress that also radically change what would have been a clean template.

You may ask – what to do about this?
Force a baby on yourself and hope it will miss you?
As I have said – it all happens to someone and is happening more frequently to all as we continue to break wellness and money, not common sense and what mothers always knew to do – happens.

Lets all play medical roulette instead.

Not pay attention to what all farmers knew – that what we eat makes who we are.

That the contaminants need to be well away from life, as anything anti life means trouble.

This may be off-putting to read.

It is more off-putting to have to support someone who days, weeks/months/years before has been in this situation and is not able to move forwards.

I have been castigated before by hose who are upset by the inference on my sites that going to IVF may not make a perfect outcome. Some get very upset that I suggest that a lack of preparation may make an imperfect baby . . .

Perhaps instead of listening to the IVF hype, some research of your own may uncover the facts.

We need in all endeavours to start at the bottom and work up – not jump to the head of the queue as there are consequences.

The excuse of ‘need donor eggs’ all the while ignoring that 4 % (current ‘acceptable level of NORMAL looking sperm in a semen same – not joking – is ridiculous – used to be the least possible normal looking to try to make a baby with ICSI – in a laboratory – and force a sperm into the egg.

Inferior and dud sperm at that – as now is 4 % only need to look ‘OK’ . . what doctors are saying is ‘good’/’OK’ and even great – this is because so few samples that are actually fertile – over the 80.5% mark that their dads would have had . . and when there were no testing or scanning – it was not a problem – pregnancy happened as designed – conception invariably meant a full term healthy baby.

Not now and not with this rubbish sperm and not even with throwing thousands of dollars away. Instead of starting with cleaning up the sperm generating cells so they can make decent sperm again – the woman is in the spotlight .. .

The new deal is telling women that they need to find donor eggs.

Who is looking at the major drama – why this is happening and as it is happening to the sperm – what does it mean for the eggs and the mother-to-be’s body (and heart, if and when the bad sperm get through and start making a baby that will not make it as it is not viable enough to live outside her body with her supporting its life force??)

Why are women so proud of the rubbish that they are still eating in pregnancy?
or the alcohol that they are still drinking?
Or the habits that they know are not life affirming that they are still indulging in?

All of this is racked up in the developing baby and is not necessarily showing YET – but why is there such an explosion in cancer in the children? Neurological incompetence, and allergies/asthma/unhealthiness abounds?

We could ask – why is there not an investigation as to what make as wellness assured?

Whilst in Melbourne recently doing a locum I found many young women who had ‘bought’ into this idea – and all of them had partners whose sperm was under 10% looking normal!!!! So all were distressed as they faced making babies with someone else’s eggs – if they could afford this.

Pretend that the sperm was not the major issue .. .No one is speaking of removing all the toxins that are making normal impossible to happen – through messing with nutrient pathways and by contaminating all life.
There is no more room to move.

In two weeks I saw three men with ZERO normal looking sperm – and one of these was attending IVF clinics to make a baby with that – with no reference to undoing why the sperm in his case was all misformed. Or what they could do themselves to undo what is happening to then and all other couples .

There are just 3 ½ years since 4% normal looking sperm would have been thrown out. The acceptable level then was seen to be 15% looking normal. Which itself is a big problem as only 10 years ago it had to be 30%, and 20 years before that 50% looking normal.

What is normal?

This is not a pass mark, or even something to aspire to – it is the LEAST likely to be seen as being fertile – although I suspect that the needs investigating.

I say this as I was working with couples to help achieve a baby when the ‘infertile’ percentage for good sperm was 80.5% – which meant that if he had over 19.5% (not 96% wrong/bad/abnormal that is now seen as ‘good/OK) looking damaged/dodgy – head tail problems – many or mangle or either or both – that meant – his sperm was no good – as whatever had messed with what was visible would also have messed with what was inside that was not visible – what the DNA had to say.

(Perhaps if you are interested, get a sperm defragmentation test done). These results show what was happening three months ago and can change with your doing lots to improve yourself. See how .. . ‘Research into Improving Male Fertility’.
Sounds reasonable – we are so very fragile and what is happening to the planet was set in motion through greed some time ago and ‘The Silent Spring’ that Dr Rachel Carson spoke of in the early 1960’s is here – in the fish, the birds, the animals and in the human populations where not there is such trauma around sex not making babies – or at least great babies in healthy pregnancies to happy mums.

It is not a matter of luck that one of the issues mentioned above happens – it is a matter of poor planning – and all the work to be put in to get a couple of over a baby line seems to be superfluous when the razzle-dazzle of ART shines through – but – the hard yards of undoing life habits and complacency – and the toxic harvest (‘Our Stolen Future’) that has messed with your body really dictates that something serious may be needed to be done – and even if a baby does not eventuate, at least you and your partner will be well and vibrant.

The exchange of effort for results works for all athletes and it also works for marathon runners, and farmers and will for you too . . . It works for most who actually look after gardens, rearing animals and will also work out for your quality baby making if you take this seriously.

What used to happen – sex equals babies – now does not.

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